What Kids Need: Parental Discipline

What Kids Need: Parental Discipline Okay, you have established some rules, set some consequences, negotiated this upfront in advance of a big problem, and solicited your child’s feedback.  Now what?  Now, you must enforce those consequences as agreed.  Enforcing...

What Kids Need: Personal Standards

What Kids Need: Personal Standards In this series, I have been addressing What Kids Need in their lives to be resilient in their thinking, choices, values, integrity, and friendships.  In this post, I will talk about a favorite topic of mine, Personal Standards.  It...

What Kids Need: Expectations

What Kids Need: Expectations The human psyche default, without any guidelines or expectations, is generally to the negative.  We must have some general guidelines that we provide to our kids to avoid ending up in a sticky mess like this photo.  I don’t know if...

What Kids Need: Parents as a Resource

What Kids Need: Parents as a Resource It seems nearly impossible when listening to our young person not to give advice.  As parents, we have so many stories, have lived so many situations, and endured various circumstances that we can, at times, see what is coming. ...

What Kids Need: Adults Talking to Them

What Kids Need: Adults Talking to Them I am amazed at the adults, many of whom raised kids, who go to public places and act as if they are afraid to talk with kids, particularly teenagers.  Kids need adults who will speak with them and help them build their...